Monday, 10 May 2021 16:27

The craziest 15 months ever

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Yes, the past 15 months have been by far the craziest known to modern man (no, that's not sexist, it's just a phrase).

The Corona Virus sure has a lot to answer for. The question is, are you coming out of this weaker/more fearful or better than ever before?

I can say with hand on heart this has been my best period of growth ever.

Whilst watching people around me literally crumble to dust, I have become stronger emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically. So how have I done this. I made a decision not to let all the bullshit get to me, and let's face it, there's been so much bullshit. 

It's high time people picked themselves up, dusted themselves off and started taking back responsibility for their lives, as opposed to being told how to think (without question) and what to do.

Life doesn't happen to us, it happens for us and this situation is the greatest opportunity to grow and prosper.

It's time to do, or die!

Kind Regards Howard

Thursday, 30 July 2020 12:09

My Podcast is coming

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Hi All.

 I'm delighted and very excited to announce that my Podcast will be kicking off real soon - TBA.

It's called the Action for Living Podcast and it will initially be audio only, progressing to video once I get the hang of it!

It's going to be an interview format where I'll be talking with various 'achievers' from many walks of life that have a great story and message to share.

Wish me luck!

Regards - Howard 

Thursday, 30 July 2020 12:09

Stay sane in this crazy time

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Hi All. 

We're 4 months into the craziest time in recent history. 

The Corona Virus has taken over the World for now, but rest assured it won't stay like this forever.

Yes, the majority of people are shell-shocked and weary from the ongoing uncertainty but stay strong and stay wise. Believing everything you hear via the media is bad for your health and sanity so switch off the news and live with common sense.

Life throws challenges at us to help us grow, and this time is the greatest we've ever experienced for many many decades so embrace it and become the best version of you possible.

Be awesome!

Regards - Howard 

Thursday, 10 January 2019 13:08

A goal for the next 5 months

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I have a goal for the next 5 months and that's to coach at least 100 students to help them prepare mentally and emotionally for their upcoming exams. 

Exam prep is one of the most stressful times for kids and in our current society we have almost become obsessed with the notion that people can't and shouldn't have to cope with pressure. This is such a lot of nonsense as the only way a person grows is by going through a stressful/pressure-filled time.

I have the tools and processes to help even the most shyest and unconfident student overcome their fears and come out on top, and be a winner.

I look forward to taking on this challenge and celebrating with those who take the journey with me.

Have a great day 

Sincerely - Howard


Thursday, 26 July 2018 08:15

My current morning ritual - hour of power

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Since listening to the Anthony Robbins ‘Get the Edge’ cd’s some 15 years ago, I have been doing a morning ritual to start my day. It all started off as a carbon copy of Robbin’s ‘Hour of power’ but over the years I’ve modified and tweaked it accordingly to suit my location and the exercise equipment to hand. So here’s a step by step/blow by blow account of how I run my morning ritual when I’m at home.

• The alert goes off on my iphone – I turn it off –jump out of bed without hesitation and smile insanely for a count of ten

• Next I do 20-30 large diaphramic breaths (ala the Wim Hof method) to oxygenate my system

• Then I lay on the floor stretch out and do 30-40 crunches, tensing briefly on the contraction • Next I’m in the bathroom where I drink down two full glasses of water

• Then it’s out onto my balcony (yes, I’m in my underwear – no matter what the weather) where I have a pair of 3kg dumbells that I pick up and do a variety of fast exercises to get the blood flowing.

• I have my training gear airing from the previous day’s session on my balcony, so I put that on and head downstairs

• I go into the kitchen and open the patio doors that lead to the garden (to get some fresh air into the house)

• Next I put on a podcast to listen to in the background whilst I ‘do my thing’

• Then I switch on the kettle the go outside on my patio where I jog on the spot to a ‘four in four out’ breathing pattern’ whilst the kettle boils. This is a modified version or breath-walking created at MIT many years ago.

• Once the kettle boils I make a black coffee with 2-3 teaspoons of instant coffee and small teaspoon of sea-salt

• I then go to my gym where I get my swiss-ball out and take it into the kitchen

• I then sit and bounce on the swiss ball for 40 reps, then take a gulp of my coffee and repeat this 5-6 times until the coffees gone. While I’m bouncing I take in big breaths to oxygenate my lungs. The bouncing on the ball helps shift the lymph fluid (your body’s sewage system) which means it can be released during the day via breathing, sweating, urination and excretion. (sounds yucky but we need to get this crap out of us!) • Once the coffee is drank I then head for my gym for part one of my work-out practice

• My workouts consist of the following: Day 1. chest and back Day 2. Kettlebell swings & deadlifts with 30 second stationary bike sprints Day 3. Shoulders and trapezius 4. Repeat day two 5. Repeat day 1 etc……

• After 20/25 minutes I break to drive my son around his paper-round. During this time I’m listening to a podcast

• 30 minutes later we’re back and I continue with the exercises.

• I will very often do bear crawls and crab crawls after my workout just to finish me off and get my heartrate high

• Job done………………..time for a shot of salt-lemon juice and water which is the ultimate recovery and hydration drink.

• Shower time!


Friday, 21 July 2017 10:20

Amazing fat loss - the secret revealed

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Hey friends, it's been a while since I last put a blog on here, forgive me!

I wanted to share with you my amazing 'fat loss' journey over the past 151 days that has enabled me to go from 14 stone to 10 stone 12lbs.

5 months ago, I was a 'chunky' for me 14 stone and I decided to 'get lean' for my forthcoming trip to Canada/Orlando. I knew on this type of holiday I'd be eating some naughty food, so I thought it best to be ahead of the game.

So, I quickly devised an eating plan incorporating many of the principles from various low carb eating programs such as the ketogenic diet, the paleo solution, primal eating and JJ Virgin's eating plan. The results were/are truly staggering.

My bodyfat is down to 5%, with great muscle retention. Heck, I've now got veins on my stomach or as Charles Poliquin calls it 'Penis skin on my abs'. :-)

For those crazy enough to give my eating plan a crack, here is a list of what I've been eating literally 7 days a week for the past 5 months. Each 'meal' food listed is eaten with 2 hours in between:

  1. Black coffee - teaspoon of Kerrygold butter, teaspoon of coconut oil
  2. Black coffee with teaspoon of coconut oil and teanspoon of double cream
  3. 2 raw eggs mixed in water
  4. 2 scoops of whey protein powder, wheatgrass, chia seeds, coconut powder - mixed in water
  5. 20 grams of salted peanuts
  6. Same as meal 3.
  7. Same as meal 4
  8. 1.5 scoops of whey protein powder mixed in water
  9. 2 scrambled eggs and half an avacado
  10. 1 scoop of whey protein powder in water
  11. 15 grams of salted peanuts
  12. 20 grams of Red Leicester cheese and teaspoon of salsa
  13. 250 grams of 98.5% steak mince burgers (cheese and salsa on top)
  14. Black decaf coffee with 2 teaspoons of double cream
  15. Carb Killa protein bar

Well, there you have it, my daily eating plan. But here's the thing; You do not need to be as focused as me to make substantial losses in bodyfat. All it takes is to reduce your carb consumption to around 100 grams a day (most people are on circa 5 times that!), this doesn't include great fibrous veg like brocolli, kale and spinnach.

Have fun





Wednesday, 12 October 2016 08:46

Today's workout - step my step

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Hi All, I hope everything is great for you and that you're pursuing your goals and dreams.

Now, many of you may know this but I do an exercise session every single day, we're talking 365, no excuses.

I'd like to share with you the rep by rep workout I used this morning. You'll notice that I used very low reps in my training, this is based on the Russian principles of not going to maximum reps, instead having 'something left in the tank'. This type of training focuses on building strength and hypertrophy (muscle growth). The Lifting is done with minimal rest, usually 5-10 deep breaths in between sets. The kettlebell is 35lbs, the dumbbells ar 35lb each and the barbell used on the bench press is 160lb, and the barbell used for deadlifts is 180lbs. My workout commences at just after 6am, once I've downed my black coffee mixed with a spoonfull of butter and a spoonful of coconut oil.

Jog for 3 minutes (deep breathing), 5 deadhang pullups, 12 kettlebell swings, 12 swiss ball push ups, 6 dumbbell deadlifts, 7 dumbbell flyes, 5 deadhang chin ups, 14 kettlebell swings, 6 dumbbell deadlifts, 8 dumbell flyes, 5 reps each arm -dumbbell curls, 15 kettlebell swings, 5 chin ups, 7 dumbbell deadlifts, 7 dumbbell flyes, 15 kettlebell swings, 10 swiss ball push ups, 15 kettlebell swings, 5 chin ups, 4 dips, 3 reps - bench press, 5x kettlebell squats, 2 reps of deadlifts, 4 dips, 3 bench press, 2 deadlights, 5 kettlebell squats, 4 dips, 1 deadlift, 3 bench press, 1 deadlift, 4 dips, 1 deadlift, 5 kettlebell squats, 5 dips, 1 deadlift, 3 bench press, 5 kettlebell squats, 4 dips, 1 deadlift, 3 bench press, 4 dips, 10 kettlebell swings, 3 bench press, 1 deadlift, 6 kettlebell tricep extensions, 6 over head kettlebell swings, 10 minute walk/run wearing a 22lb weight vest, 2 chin-ups wearing the weight vest, 5 jump squats holding the kettlebell, jog on spot for 1 minute. JOB DONE!

Delighted to have sponsored the Essex Rockets Basketball teams new away strip.

Being the self promoting type (as you've got to be!), that's me on the far right-back row, standing next to my son Olly.

Wednesday, 14 October 2015 12:13

My Morning Ritual

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Holy sh*t! It's been so long since I did my last blog! Sorry! J

I am always asked during my coaching sessions how I start my day, so I thought I’d share with you my 7 days a week morning ritual (nope, i never take a day off, not even when I’m on holiday).

  • At 5.40am my iPhone alert goes off. I immediately put a big smile on my face and jump out of bed!
  • I take-in several large breaths to oxygenate my system as I put on my work-out clothes
  • Then it's downstairs into the kitchen where I drink down a pint of water to get my body hydrated
  • I put on my iPad and play an inspirational audio book or video clip usually by one of the world’s top high performance coaches
  • Next it's on with the kettle and I’ll put 5 spoonfuls of mild roast coffee into a cup along with some water and one teaspoon of pure virgin coconut oil
  • Then i go to my gym, grab my Swiss-ball and return to the kitchen where I’ll sit bouncing on the ball OR jog on the spot until the kettle boils. This gets my heart rate up and gets the blood flowing
  • Once the kettle boils, I’ll sit on the Swiss ball and quickly drink down my cup of coffee. It's caffeine overload at its best, but it's great to kick start the system and get the fat burning process going
  • Then i get two ten pound dumbbells , sit back on my Swiss ball and for 6-7 minutes bang-out various movements. First off it's 80 Twisting sit ups, then it's curl and presses, twisting shoulder presses, bent over rows and laterals and two handed curls where i alternate raising my left and right foot off the floor for each rep.
  • After 6-7 minutes, i will down a whey protein shake (1.5 scoops) in water which gives me 30 grams of protein.
  • Next i grab a pad and pen, sit back on the ball and write out my goals
  • Straight after that it's another 5 or so minutes of various dumbell movements done on the Swiss ball
  • Next it's into my gym where I’ll bang out 6-7 reps of close-grip chin-ups followed immediately after with 6-7 reps of incline bench press with 160lbs. Now i am ready to rock and roll!
  • Then it's on with my trainers and I’m out the house for 15-20 minutes doing a combination of walking and running whilst utilising a very specific breath pattern where i inhale four times then exhale four times. It's during this time i do my mind programming ritual which is a combination of powerful affirmations/incantations. Then i think of all the things I am grateful for, followed by all the great things i want to happen in my life. This type of mind programming helps to set me up to have a great day-every day
  • Once i'm back home, I make my son his breakfast, then I’m back into the gym for 25-30 minutes of heavy weight training, finishing with a few maximum sprints on the exercise bike at its highest resistance.
  • To end the ritual, i go back outside for a 10-15 minute walk where i once again practice my four-four breathing pattern while doing incantations.
  • Once i’m back home it’s time to get ready for work

Knowing the above, is it any surprise i'm such a freak?

Friday, 11 July 2014 11:06

Ditch the news!

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Most people you know or meet, appear extremely overwhelmed with their lives, why is this? I strongly believe that 95% of people get suckered into all the crap and misery that the media reports 24/7 365 a year. This leaves them feeling totally out of control, distressed and believing the future's not a very nice thing.

Let me tell you this and it's coming from my own personal experience, if you seriously want to get back into control of your life and stop being an uptight grumpy serious bastard, you must must must ditch the 'news' completely. No more radio news, no more newspapers and certainly no more tv or internet news.

99% of the news reported daily has absolutely no bearing on your life and is truly detrimental to your future. I gave up the news 2 years ago after watching a Darren Hardy YouTube clip and i've never been more healthier wealthier or happier than i am now.

Please please, ditch the mindset that the news keeps you informed, it doesn't that's pure bullshit.

The news is there to scare and control you, to put fear in your heart and soul Every day the news channels search for the most nasty gory miserable stories possible and blurt them out every few seconds.

Ask yourself this: Would you allow someone to sit in your lounge and talk to your kids about murders, shootings, rapes, killings, terrorist attacks, paedophiles, drugs and sexual abuse cases? Of course not! So why why why, do you allow yourself to absorb this stuff and poison your mind?

Start today on a mental cleanse, ditch the media for a week, yes a whole 7 days and just see how much more free you feel. Your pulse rate and blood pressure with go down and soon you'll feel so in control of your life like never before.

Monday, 03 March 2014 13:13

Adding value

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I so believe that the secret to living is giving and adding value to other people's lives.

We live in a culture where people have been brainwashed into the concept of 'just enough', but this is so wrong. Always always always do more than is exptected of you and you'll be making an investment in making things that much better. 

Do things that challenge you but benefit the lives of those that need it. If you see someone needing love, give it to them, don't wait for them to ask.

Life is about being and doing, so make sure every day you're being a good person and doing great things for the greater good. What you give wil come back tenfold, therefore the more you give the more you get, which means the more you'll have to give. The cycle continues.......

Friday, 28 February 2014 15:54

Sleeping the weekend away

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For some strange reason so many people insist on laying in bed for hours-on-end over the weekends, telling themselves 'I deserve a few extra hours in bed'.

I find this mindset and action (or lack of action) extremely weird, as it adds no benefit to your life whatsoever.

Human beings sleep way-too much anyway, as they've been brainwashed to believe we need at least 8 hours sleep per night. Sleep studies clearly prove this to be utter nonsense, in fact the more sleep a person gets, the less awake they feel when they eventually get-up.  

Having prolonged lay-ins actually has a very negative effect on your psychological state too, as you qucikly realise you've not enough hours left in the day to do all those chores, this puts many people in a mild state of panic.

While i'm not saying ditch the lay-ins completely (you don't need to go cold turkey, so don't worry), what I am saying is moderate it to 45-60 minutes maximum.

Life is for living not lying in bed! 

Friday, 15 November 2013 13:28

Words mean so much

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I was recently listening Darren Hardy's Compound Effect CD in my car, when he used a great line that really struck a cord in me as a better way to say something.

Most managers/interviewers use the phrase 'what are your strengths and what are your weaknesses?'. Now, the word 'weaknesses' conjures up negative thoughts within and sows a seed of uncertainty and lack of competance. Therefore a better phrase to use would be 'what are your strengths and what do you need to improve?'

Just by taking out a negative word and replacing it with something more 'thought provoking' works wonders when trying to get a great answer, as opposed a knee-jerk reaction based on protecting ones self esteem. 

Pick your words wisely and I guarantee you'll get greater results in all areas of your life.

Tuesday, 27 August 2013 15:31

Dark Lane Dynamos sponsorship

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I'm delighted to announce that Action for Living are one of the 'Dark Lane Dynamos Under 11 Reds' sponsors for the 2013/14 season.

I'd like to wish all the lads (which includes my son Oliver) a great season.

I'm sure you'll play as great as you look in the new strip boys! 

Thursday, 13 June 2013 10:55

Flexible payment terms

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I'm sure many people have considered using a Life Coach, but have concerns/reservations regarding the cost. Action for Living is happy to discuss 'flexible payment terms' as we fully appreciate 'coaching costs' are something you've probably never factored into your life.

It's always been my focus to help others, and if by having AFL's fee's broken down into more manageable installments, I get the chance to coach you, then it's a 'double whammy' situation.

If you are interested in having some coaching, then please give me a call and we can discuss what/how/when/why. 


Howard Sellick

Wednesday, 01 May 2013 16:29

The power of your thoughts

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So many people take their thoughts for granted, but we must realise 'thoughts are things'.

Your thoughts determine your feelings, your feelings determine what action you take in life, and from your actions you produce results.

Think like a winner, think with no limits, think as though you were a kid at Christmas doing your list for Father Christmas. 

Think about what it is you want out of life and write it down with a timeline on, and everyday first-thing read your 'wants list' and soon your wishes will be realised.

Think BIG, live HUGE!!!


Friday, 26 April 2013 12:53

Feeding the mind

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Every day you must make sure you feed the mind with information that improves your life. Listening to self improvement CD's or watching youtube clips from peak performance coaches is a great way to learn while your doing other things. I work-out for around an hour a a half everyday and I'm constantly listening to Tony Robbins, Darren Hardy, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy and Jim Rohn as I train. I also listen to self-improvement CD's whenever I'm driving in my car, and I make sure I listen to at least an hour of something inspirational at bedtime, eventually drifting off to sleep while the messages continue to feed my subconcious mind. 

Wednesday, 16 January 2013 15:57

Howard recommends

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For anyone suffering from back, shoulder or neck pain, I'm happy to recommend Gary Pepper of Hadleigh Osteopathy. Check out the company website:

A qualified Osteopath, Gary is open, friendly and extremely knowledgeable about his trade. He'll get you 'back' to feeling your best!

Friday, 04 January 2013 12:52

New Year, a New You

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Use this new year to get more out of your life than ever before. Remember, if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got!

Set yourself some really big inspiring goals, goals that excite you, goals that get your heart beating faster when you think about them. 

Don't settle for less than you can be, because you can always be so much more than you've been before. Commit to achieving your wildest dreams and burn the boats/bridges so you can't go back. 

Massive action will equal massive positive change!

Happy New Year! Live today like you've never lived before!

Friday, 23 November 2012 16:00

The Job Market

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Don't go believing that the job market is as bad as the media telll us. Yeah, things aren't super wondeful out there, but it isn't all doom and gloom, believe me.

Job seekers have to work harder to get roles now, and be more resilient and focused than ever before. With the right mental approach and strategy in place, you will win. 

Thursday, 08 November 2012 16:22

Howard recommends

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Hi. I'm blogging to recommend a good friend of mine that has a photographic business based in Benfleet, Essex.

Ian Beardsall photography is definitely worth checking out if you'd like some 'snaps' taken. Take a look at his website, and if you get in touch, tell him I sent you. 

Friday, 02 November 2012 12:34

Health tip - Super-hydration

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We should all drink more good clean water everyday to hydrate and cleanse our bodies. The absolute minimum is half our bodyweight in ounces, i.e. If you weigh 160lb, you need to drink 'at least' 80 ounces of water. Ideally you should add an alkaline based 'green drink' to the water, something like wheatgrass powder. Wheatgrass helps your body to become more alkaline than acidic. When your body's acidic, this is when you get ill, feel dreadful and your red 'oxygen carrying' blood cells won't move through the body effectively, making you feel tired and sluggish.

The utlimate gift you can give your body is this superhyrdation process with green drinks. If you did this for just half a day, I guarantee by early afternoon you'd be feeling great! Go on, try it!

Thursday, 18 October 2012 10:18

Howard recommends

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Sunrise Natural Health and Nutrition Centre in Hockley is in my opinion the best 'health store' around. With an excellent range of products and great advice/service to match. Go and see Richard and Sally and tell'm I sent you. Howard

Wednesday, 17 October 2012 14:23

Howard recommends

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Leonmedia of Leigh-on-Sea ( have provided me with a first-class web design service. Mike and Ian are passionate about what they do, are creative in their thinking and can always produce the solution to any challenge that arises. A great website is so important to promoting a business and I'm delighted with what they've done for me. Cheers guys. Howard 

Wednesday, 17 October 2012 12:26


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After a successful career in sales over 20 years, my motivation had let's say 'dwindled' over the last few years. 

I was recommended to Howard by a friend who promised me he would get me back my mojo! Howards approach is unique, he gets you out at 7am in nature for what he calls a "walk and talk session". This combination is just amazing as it gets you talking about your goals while also changing your environment. I started a new job whilst under Howards guidance and have smashed my targets 2 months running and in the process have broken company records. What separates Howard, and anyone that knows him will agree, he cares. He isn't doing it for the money, he does it to change peoples lives. He certainly changed mine.

Thanks Coach!
4 months ago, I was at a crossroads with my career path. Being a Professional Footballer, there were elements of my job at the time that I loved, but it was a job that involved performing which just wasn’t for me. I wanted to use my knowledge in goalkeeping to really help others in becoming the best they can be. It was at this point that my girlfriend suggested I seek a life coach to help with my dilemma which is where I came across Howard. After initially speaking with Howard and finding out he knew who I was, I must admit I was a bit sceptical as it would have been easy for him to just say he could help me enjoy performing again. Within our first session he acknowledged that I had an underlying need to help other people and really helped me come to terms with making such a life changing decision. He helped me to realise what path I wanted to take once I had made the decision and I have gone on to set up 2 different businesses within goalkeeping to help others. If I wasn’t for Howard, I would still be in the same job feeling stuck and knowing there was a lot more I wanted to do with my life. There were days where it was overwhelming for a brief moment, but Howard has always taken his job way past the 1 to 1 session’s and would be in regular contact to ensure I was doing all I can to stay positive and move forward. Howard himself is the most positive, enthusiastic person that I have met, and lives his own life everyday striving to be the best person he can be. His positivity is infectious, and I believe it will rub off on anyone in his presence. Not only has Howard helped me to set off on a path to go out and be who I want to be, I feel like I have gained a lifelong friendship.

If there is anyone out there who feels like they need a little guidance in life, I couldn’t recommend Howard enough!

Ted Smith
I will forever be grateful for the partnership Howard and I have, and how it has enabled me to embrace life and new career opportunities. Howard’s positivity and passion for life is contagious and, with the support of practical tools and techniques, he has supported me to enrich my career, health and relationships. Howard goes above and beyond. He listens attentively, and without judgement, gently challenges me to ensure I’m clear on my purpose and ‘why’. He challenges self-imposed limiting beliefs and we set appropriately stretching goals. He encourages me to deliver; celebrating success no matter how big or small the ‘win’. With a new found personal confidence, clarity of my career, and a reinvigorated zest for life, I’m ready to show the world the best of me every day.

Thank-you Howard for your professionalism, passion and most importantly, kindness and care. Long may our partnership continue!

Regards LM
Howard's enthusiasm and energy are contagious and I've thoroughly enjoyed my coaching sessions. He is also a very good listener and pays close attention. Then he applies his many coaching tactics and strategies to quickly get to the heart of what's required to help one move forwards, onwards and upwards! Having felt 'stuck' with a lack of motivation (and lots to do), I particularly benefitted from the goal-setting exercises as, having avoided these in the past, it turns out they are really useful. He is well read in his discipline and suggests excellent books for further enlightenment.

I highly recommend Howard for coaching.

Kindest Regards Ann
Hi Howard, I have been meaning to text you for ages but life just takes over. I just wanted to thank you for giving me back my amazing, HAPPY, no more tears and no more “anxiety attack’s” daughter. You met with her earlier this year and without doubt you have helped so much. Keep up the good work because you have changed our lives.

Thank you so much.

JP- A very happy mum!
Thank you for your time, support, direction, enthusiasm and just brilliant - ness (if that is ever a word). I could listen and talk about all this for hours. It was great to see you so passionate and enthusiastic about what you do.
It certainty has been a life changing moment for sure for me. It was very much a very cathartic experience. I have never had ever the fortunate opportunity before to talk so openly about all these sorts of things , that have been inside for such a long time, years? - so directly and openly.

Thank you so so, so, so much, I have really appreciated it.

Regards A
I’m glad I contacted and visited Howard. His approach to life really lifted me, his voice his attitude. Being able to listen to somebody so positive and set your own goals. I did Howard’s 5-4-3-2-1 ‘get up’ method and sprang out of bed, I’ve even started walking again in the mornings. A genuine nice man with many skills, lots of energy and a great coach who knows his stuff.
I am grateful for his time and direction I will not forget him or his kindness.
Thank you Howard, you’re a star. I will succeed thanks to you.

After realising I needed a personal “MOT” I decided to contact a life coach. I found a local company Action for Living and booked a 2-hour session with Howard.
To be honest I wasn’t expecting the results to take effect as quickly as they did. You leave Howard feeling you have a new direction and it’s the little simple techniques he teaches you that make the biggest changes.
But what makes him different to other “life coaches” I have seen is the follow up. Firstly, you receive an email detailing what has been spoken about and the actions he has set out for you within 2 hours of your first meeting.
But what really sets him apart from the rest has been the 2 motivational follow up videos he has sent to me this week.
I now have him in my phone as “coach” and the offer of being able to give him a call if you waver from the plan he has set me is a reassuring aspect.
Highly recommend Action for Living and also to start with a 2 hour meeting.
Thank you

Howard is not an average coach. When he coached me, he made my life his life. He knew what I needed to help me stay focused and ensured that I followed through, there was no option for failure! He wasn’t going to let that happen to me. Not only did he coach me on how to move my business forward but he has a holistic approach and helped me get the other areas of my life straight – health, relationships and having more “me time”.
With Howard, you are going to get results, because he has been there and done it and is a living example of self discipline and “owning it”. I love his approach as he is firm and makes it happen, but also compassionate and understanding! Thank you Howard for helping me raise my game and taking me to the next level of my life!

"I was pointed in Howard's direction by a friend of mine who has known him for several years. My life wasn't going according to plan, not that I had a definite plan more of a vague thought process of what I should be doing. I had been made redundant from a long term position and was adrift. The time I spent with Howard proved to be exactly what I needed, I believe he had such a positive effect on my mental wellbeing. Howard's texts, emails and messages on LinkedIn helped reinforce the momentum started in our session. Overall I just want to say thanks for the support and kick I needed."
Susanne F
"Howard has masses of energy, positivity and ideas to get you going in the direction you want to go to meet and surpass the goals you set for yourself. He gave me the kick in the backside I needed. Thanks again for your help."
Matt Stables – PGA Professional
"Howard is a truly inspiring person. I decided I needed some help when I was feeling lost about my next steps in life. I didn't want to go to a ‘professional’ who would dig deep into my childhood to find where the problem lay, I just wanted a listening ear, some good advice and an action plan. Howard gave me all of that and more! I walked away from a 2 hour session with Howard feeling enthusiastic! Since then, I have had more clarity about what I want and how to get it! Thanks so much Howard!"
Laura P
"I was unsure as to what to expect, as I had been recommended to Howard by a close friend of mine. The time that I had with him I found to be exceptionally helpful and for which I cannot thank him enough. His practical advice, simple memorable techniques, inspiration, and most of all motivation were just simply fantastic. You leave with all that you need to achieve your goal, inspired and self motivated. I would highly recommend spending time with Howard as he will certainly enable you to achieve your goals."
Marion P
"I had an upcoming job interview with a panel of psychologists and I was petrified! I was recommended to get in touch with Howard for some confidence-boosting and interview techniques, and I’m really glad I listened to the recommendation because Howard was so helpful!
My session with Howard helped a lot, and I came out of the session feeling a lot more confident and having gained lots of little interview tips. I am pleased to say I had the interview and I got offered the job! Thanks Howard! I will definitely recommend you."

"I am extremely grateful to have been introduced to Howard to help me prepare for an audition. Not only were his straight talking methods excellent, I found his energy and passion towards the love of life really infectious. It’s made me take a serious look at my life and ask the questions I’m sure most of us forget to ask ourselves, ‘what do we want from our lives?’.

I truly believe-despite only working with Howard for 2 sessions, no-one has had such a positive impact on my life, so I thank you. The energy levels I felt when I left our last session were so amazing, I felt so pumped that I could have addressed Parliament, and this is coming from someone who is NOT a confident public speaker."

Thank you so much Howard

"I went to see Howard when I was feeling a bit despondent about how my life was going and frustrated at the lack of direction. Seeing Howard for a 2 hours session has literally turned things around. Howard ignited all the flames again for my passion of life and success and energy to dream big. He has an enormous energy and you can’t help but be lifted. His daily reinforcements through Twitter and LinkedIn have really helped to keep the momentum going and harness some self-motivation for change and progress.

If you need to be woken up from your slumber Howard is the man to do it!

Howard, I just wanted to say thanks. That coaching session with you has literally turned things around for me. I remember now what it's like to dream and be positive.
I think I almost had forgotten!"

Aisha S.
"Howard is about the most positive business person I know and with good cause. He's an expert in his field, knows how to get consistently great results and is as reliable as they come.

Don't use poor imitations - use Howard, because he's the best out there"

Lucas Vigilante - Director of Action Coach
"Dear Howard. Thank you for your time and immense help at our recent coaching session. I came away feeling much more confident and that I had something to offer, as previously I had been stuck in a rut. It was of great value to me especially as I have now gone on to find part time PA work which is very suitable at the moment. Your suggestions and ideas stuck in my mind when I made myself known to my employer. Everything you said made perfect sense and I also learnt that you were right when you said, you cant cry if you look up ;-)

Thank you again, so much.
Take care, Audrey H

"Coaching with Howard has been great! He is an intuitive and creative coach who cares about his clients and shows it in his listening and questioning. He is also warm and humorous and makes it fun! Through our session, he made me regain conviction over the right direction for my career and made me want to take action on this. I have been dissatisfied for quite a while with my work life and a number of other areas in life and felt recently almost burnt out but he helped me put things in perspective and realise I am confident in ways I tended to forget. It made me think “outside the box”. Coaching is about moving forward, about making something happen and shows you have everything needed to make the changes you want. It's all about action and that's what differentiates coaching from therapy. Howard can help you figure out where you want to go, make a plan of how to get there, and begin. From only one session I have gained clearer focus and motivation. Howard has really challenged me and allowed me to take a good look at what I want and how I will achieve it and I loved the way he supported and encouraged me through his accurate listening and feedback skills. My mood and motivation have been on the up after our conversation. He renewed my confidence that all the obstacles and dips in the road can be overcome. The important things is not to let them weigh you down for too long and to also celebrate your successes along the way. Thank you Howard!"
"Action for Living has provided me with great guidance and advice during our discussions. Their insight and experience proving invaluable in helping me understand how to move forward in my chosen career path. Would highly recommend using this company as they are helpful, detailed and enthusiastic about helping individuals further themselves through coaching and guidance."
Miles Byrd
"Howard has been instrumental in helping me re-evaluate my daily training and nutritional regimes, which in turn has contributed to me losing one and a half stone in roughly 5 months. Because of his advice I now feel I am a much more focused, determined (and leaner!) individual."
Scott Faulkner-Sales Executive, Valbury Capital Ltd

I approached Howard for some personal development and life coaching to help me to make some much needed life changes and assistance in working towards both my personal and professional goals.

Although I have been reasonably successful in the past I’d reached a plateau. Howard has an enthusiastic and down to earth approach and he gave me the tools and the confidence to get rid of the things in my life that no longer served me and helped me to create a plan for moving forward.

Following an initial coaching session I have received ongoing support from Howard which has been invaluable in helping me to make the necessary changes and get to where I want to be.

I wouldn’t hesitate in recommending Howard and Action for Living for both personal and professional coaching.

Caroline G.

Fantastic news about your life coaching business, Action for Living. I know from personal experience, that you have a passion and skill for helping people reach their full potential at whatever they want to do.

When I wanted to climb Mount Kilimanjaro at the age of 54, a lot friends and work colleagues thought I was mad. However I remember how excited and enthusiastic you were for me when I told you. I remember you telling me how all great victories are first won ‘in the mind’, that really inspired me.

I often think about when I climbed Mount Kilimanjaro and the moment I reached the summit. However, what I’ve never told you is, your helping me to prepare mentally for the challenge along with the training runs we did was such a key factor in my achieving the goal.

What I didn’t know at the time was, how life changing this was going to be for me. As you know, since I ‘came down from that mountain’ I’ve not stopped training and, among other things, have run over ten half marathons and two marathons, you see Howard, your enthusiasm is infectious.

Thanks again for all your help and advice, and if anyone wants to know what you’re like, please ask them to contact me, it would be a pleasure to tell them about you.

All the very best

"Howard not only excels in helping you achieve your personal and professional goals, but in helping you rediscover your passion so that you can go above and beyond what you initially sought his help for. Howard's enthusiastic yet focused methods will assist you in your life - no matter what your goal!"
Natasha Marsh – Marketing Consultant

Dear Howard
I just wanted to write to you to thank you very much for all of the coaching you have provided to Crown Vocational Training’s Apprenticeship learners in the past and also all of the support you have given recently to Sue and our Level 1 Business Administration Study Programme learners.

The learners have told us that you have given them all a great deal of support in helping build their confidence and making them more ready for the world of employment. Sue and some of the students had the following comments to make:

"Howard really helped me feel more confident about working hard for the things that I want to achieve in the workplace. He made me feel good about myself and what I can offer an employer"
Sasha Bentley

"Although I have an idea of my future career and how to get there, I believe Howard covered this with me and gave me a very motivating and inspiring outlook on how to do this"
Yasmin McGeoch

"Howard has been a breath of fresh air to my learners, enabling them to look at presenting themselves from a different perspective. He has introduced them to the nuances that will give them the edge to stand out. Inspiring!"
Sue Pascazio, Study Programme Tutor

We really appreciate all of the enthusiasm and fresh ideas that you bring with you to college and we shall look forward to seeing you again soon in the new academic year.

Kindest regards
Elaine Wardrop
Crown Vocational Training